Dailyrapupcrew Podcast | Could you date someone that slept with your friend?
Can You Sleep With Someone Who has Been With Your Best Friend?
The answer might be different for guys than for women. If a guy is dating a married woman, he thinks he’s helping to “rescue” her. He sees himself as a Knight in Shining Armor,” taking her away from what is often a physically abusive situation with her husband.
But I would have slept with Rick because I wanted to satisfy my sexual fantasies. I’m not the kind of woman to sleep with anyone, but I cannot deny I have a strong sexual appetite.
I spoke to Jackie because I didn’t want to lose her friendship. I think this, too is different for men. I would rather keep my friendship with Jackie and lose the chance to have sex with Rick. And I didn’t want to be fucking him in secret either. If we were going to hook up, I wanted it to be out in the open.
Feelings For A Partner Stay Even After They Break Up
After I graduated from college, I began dating a male stripper, a hot-looking man named Dale. I went into it just for the sex, even though Dale had dated a girl I knew from college. There was no emotional connection between Dale and me, so I assumed my friend would be okay with it. I waited up until he got off work at night, and he’d be super-horny after working for women who wanted his body and wanted to suck his cock and didn’t mind fucking him in front of all friends. He’d come in the door, and I’d be waiting for him, wearing sexy outfits to tease him. We fucked all night until the sun came up, then fall asleep, exhausted as the day started.
Janice, Dale’s ex-girlfriend, and my friend took me out for coffee one morning and asked me how it was going with Dale. I didn’t want to give her details but told her it was going okay. Then Janice’s face changed to sadness and her eyes started to tear. She admitted to me she still had feelings for Dale.
I loved my time with Dale, and we were only “friends with benefits,” but the fact that Janice had feelings for Dale even after their breakup, soured my relationship with him. We weren’t emotionally connected but despite that, I broke it off with him.
If you decided to start dating a married man or dating a married woman, be ready for emotions to run high between the ex-partners. Jackie and I went out together one night and after a few drinks, she spoke candidly about her ex-husband Rick. She said she knew he always had a thing for me, that she wasn’t blind to it, and then said I could have him if I wanted him.
She was a little drunk when she said it, so I didn’t take her at her word. But as girls’ night went on, she became bitter talking about Rick. She said she hated going through the divorce and wished they were still together. She kept asking me if I was attracted to him, to try and trap me. Then she started to cry. I felt awkward and wondered if Jackie had read my thoughts? Did she know I was thinking of getting together with Rick?
The next day Jackie called me and apologized for last night. I told her she had nothing to apologize for. Then she told me she had absolutely no feelings for Rick and that he was free as far as she was concerned. I felt relieved, and I knew she meant it.