Why is my ex girlfriend ignoring me?

What to Do If Ex Ignores You (And Why They’re Ignoring You!)

Why Does My Ex Girlfriend Ignore Me?

I can’t tell you how many times I get this question on a daily basis from desperate men out there.

Ok, I went through the emails and comments from yesterday and I received this question in some way, shape or form twelve times. So, if twelve is my daily average of receiving this question then that means that this question is asked a total of 4,380 to me every single year by 4,380 different men.

Now, I don’t know about you but to me that is a lot.

So, if you are one of these 4,380 men wondering why your ex girlfriend is ignoring or avoiding you allow me to tell you what I tell every one of these men.

Now, since I am such a stand up guy I am going to give you in-depth analysis of the most common reasons your ex girlfriend may have for ignoring you.

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What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

anger Anger is a pretty strong emotion and it could be fueling her reasoning for ignoring you.

What does your ex girlfriend have to be angry about?

Well, for starters the two of you just broke up and many experts say that going through a breakup is sometimes worse than losing a job and if any of you have lost a job when you absolutely needed money then you will understand the pain that goes along with that.

Of course, usually women focus in on something specific that you did wrong during the breakup and remain angry at that.

For example, if your ex girlfriend walked in on you and her sister in bed then she is absolutely going to have all the motivation she could ever need to stay angry at you and ignore you. Another common thing that I know women get angry about is something you said about them during a heated argument or fight.

Lets say that during the breakup you and your ex girlfriend got into a massive fight and during a very heated moment you called her fat (even though she isn’t.) Well, this little comment made by you during this fight stuck with her and she never forgot about it.

In fact, she became so furious about it that she vowed to never talk to you again.

(Don’t worry, I am going to show you how to overcome this a little bit later.)

Reason 2- You Became The “Crazy Ex Boyfriend.”

I have heard some of the craziest stories about exes you can imagine.

One time there was this guy that became so desperate to get his ex back that he crashed her wedding and tried to break it up.

The last thing you want to do is to be viewed as the “crazy ex boyfriend.” You have heard those types of stories I am sure. You know, the ones where the crazy ex boyfriend stalks the ex girlfriend until she has to take out a restraining order.

If your ex girlfriend views you as that crazy ex then that could be a motivating factor in her attempts to ignore and avoid you.

What are the classic signs of a “crazy ex boyfriend?”

There are generally three ingredients to a crazy ex so you want to make sure you avoid these at all costs,

  • He becomes a texting and calling terrorist.
  • He will do things that can be considered stalking.
  • He will be emotional to the point of being viewed as unstable.
  • Now, understanding “the crazy ex boyfriend” traits are very important because they all contribute to why your ex could potentially be avoiding you.

    Below, I am going to dive a little bit deeper into the traits.

    One- He Becomes A Texting And Calling Terrorist

    Have you ever had a girl that was head over heels for you to the point where it was kind of creepy.

    I have and let me tell you that it is not very fun. Sure, as men we all like to feel admired by the opposite sex but there is a point where it can become too much. I once had a girl harass me because I wouldn’t respond to her. Seriously, our conversations would look like this,

    I like to reserve a special spot for these type of people. I like to call them texting or calling terrorists.

    Probably the craziest example of a texting or calling terrorist I can think of has to be a story of a woman in the picture below,

    Apparently, some nutty Dutch woman called her ex boyfriend a total of 65,000 times a year.

    Now, to put this in perspective that is 178 phone calls a day. To minimize even further that is seven calls an hour.

    What is the point I am trying to get at here?


    Two- He Will Do Things That Can Be Considered Stalking

    Apparently, the crazy Dutch woman in the story above got arrested for stalking but that isn’t really what I am getting at here.

    Though, I will admit that if you call your ex that much you should be arrested for stupidity AND stalking.

    When I personally think of stalking I get this specific picture in my head. It’s a creepy looking guy that just follows one specific person around without being seen.

    This pretty much sums up the picture I get in my head,

    Anyways, if you show up at your ex girlfriends house unannounced and uninvited multiple times then congratulations you are the stalker guy pictured in the gif above.

    Three- He Is Perceived As Emotionally/Mentally Unstable

  • Hitler- Mass murdered 11 MILLION people.
  • Batman Shooter (Not Even Worth Mentioning This Guys Name)- I am sure you remember the day the Dark Knight Rises came out in theaters and some nut ball went in with a machine gun and shot people.
  • Columbine Shooters- Two mentally unstable young men go into school one day and essentially start a massacre.
  • In fact, some would argue that they are the most extreme examples of unstable people. However, I gave you extreme examples on purpose so your mind would immediately jump there. Look, you know as well as I do that mentally/emotionally unstable people aren’t attractive, they are scary as hell.

    So, if your ex girlfriend perceives you as emotionally or mentally unstable then you have a serious problem because she put you in the unstable category with the people mentioned above.

    What constitutes you as being perceived as emotionally and mentally unstable?

    Imagine for a moment that it is me instead of you trying to get your ex girlfriend back (in other words you and I switch places for the day.)

    Lets say that I call your ex girlfriend like crazy, I show up unannounced, I threaten to hurt myself if she doesn’t cooperate and the list just goes on and on.

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