What to Expect From a Cancer Man After He Breaks Up

He may act as if he thinks you’re still together. It isn’t above a heartbroken Cancer man to even use guilt trips to try to get you to change your mind if the breakup was your idea. Cancers usually see themselves as the victim, no matter what the story really was.

A Cancer man may act like he has a right to your exclusive attention after a breakup even. If it is not your intention to get back together with him, you’ve got to use strong boundaries to make that clear. When a Cancer man is done with you, he’ll be so detached emotionally that he’ll no longer get jealous.

He can take hints, but he prefers the reassurance of direct communication. Not only that, he needs to hear again and again how much you are thinking of him and how much you want him back. If he’s showing interest in someone else, it’s a good time to let him know you want him back.

Once reality sinks in and he sees what it’s like to not have you in his life, you’ll see a complete turnaround take place. A Cancer man will realize he’s got to take the breakup seriously. He’ll try to get you back and you’ll see just how much you really matter to him.

Paradoxical as it seems, if you want to know how to make a Cancer man come back to you, the best thing you can do is to leave him alone. Give him space in his own territory. It will be the most powerful wake-up call you can give him. Sooner or later he’ll be in touch with you.

He’ll stop by with some extra groceries he picked up from the store or with dinner he made too much of. Even after a breakup, a Cancer man is still trying to be your caretaker. If you’re sick or he doesn’t hear from you, he’ll stop in to see if you’re ok.

He’ll try to check in with your friends to see how you are and what you’re up to. At best, he’ll learn valuable information about you and feel like you’re still a part of his life. At worst, he may not learn much at all but he will hope your friend at least mentioned he reached out.

In his mind, this helps a Cancer man feel like he’s still got a connection to you. He loves to feel like he’s still in your life even in these roundabout ways. If you have mutual friends, he may use these connections to try to influence you or get messages to you.

Cancer men (and women) are deeply sensitive and highly emotional beings. This means that they are likely to retreat into their crab shell after a breakup to nurse their broken hearts. It won’t be easy to tempt him back out, and you will have to regain his trust before he does, otherwise, you will lose him for good.

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What Happens After a Cancer Man Breaks Up with You

He can take hints, but he prefers the reassurance of direct communication. Not only that, he needs to hear again and again how much you are thinking of him and how much you want him back. If he’s showing interest in someone else, it’s a good time to let him know you want him back.

In his mind, this helps a Cancer man feel like he’s still got a connection to you. He loves to feel like he’s still in your life even in these roundabout ways. If you have mutual friends, he may use these connections to try to influence you or get messages to you.

He may act as if he thinks you’re still together. It isn’t above a heartbroken Cancer man to even use guilt trips to try to get you to change your mind if the breakup was your idea. Cancers usually see themselves as the victim, no matter what the story really was.

Paradoxical as it seems, if you want to know how to make a Cancer man come back to you, the best thing you can do is to leave him alone. Give him space in his own territory. It will be the most powerful wake-up call you can give him. Sooner or later he’ll be in touch with you.

He’ll stop by with some extra groceries he picked up from the store or with dinner he made too much of. Even after a breakup, a Cancer man is still trying to be your caretaker. If you’re sick or he doesn’t hear from you, he’ll stop in to see if you’re ok.

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