What Are You Looking For On Tinder? SEND Her This! (Rude Answer)
Some Of The Reasons People Are On Tinder:
Why Your Match Is Asking What You Are Looking For On Tinder
This is the real question. The main reason she is asking is to see if what you want is aligned with her. So, basically, she is asking this to filter out the wrong kind of guys.
It’s a tricky question, especially if her bio is blank. Of course, honesty is the best policy. If you strictly want something casual or a relationship, tell them.
But for the rest of this post, I’m going to assume you are open to what you are looking for. Maybe a hookup, maybe someone just the hang out with, maybe something more?
There are a number of reasons as to why your match is on Tinder. That’s probably why you are freaking out about how to answer their question.
I get it man, you don’t want to say you’re maybe looking for something a bit more serious if your match is only looking for a hookup.
Remember, this is only if you are open to anything on Tinder and not looking for anything specific.
Recently a study explored the difference in intent between male and female Tinder users.
Although the results were fairly similar, the intent for one-night stands was the main difference between genders. Which I assume a lot of you would have already known.
Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely a lot of women looking for something casual on Tinder, it’s just quite a bit different from the number of guys.
The main takeaway from this isn’t that there might be a few more guys looking for a fling out there (which I’m sure you already knew), but mainly that what men and women are looking for isn’t all that different.
Another interesting point I take away from this data is the variation in what ALL people are looking for, regardless of being male or female.
How To Answer “What Are You Looking For On Tinder?”
Are you not sure what you are looking for on Tinder? Great! I don’t think many people are! So when it comes to answering this question, I feel this is the best way to answer it.
Now, you don’t want to straight-up answer “I don’t know”. That will leave your match disappointed. The best way to answer what you are looking for on Tinder is to be ambiguous, whilst giving your answer.
This could sound a bit confusing to some of you, but let me give you an example to help illustrate what I mean.
Answer: “To be honest, I’m not completely sure. I downloaded it mainly out of boredom and some curiosity. I’m not just on here for a hookup, but don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with that. But the main reason I’m on here is to just meet some cool people with no expectations and see where things go.”
This might sound like a mouthful to some of you, but I have never ever seen a negative response to this, in fact, I feel it always gets a very positive response.
That’s because it ticks almost every box, but also doesn’t put you into one specific category of either looking for a hookup or a relationship.
Plus, being laid back and open to different experiences is generally an attractive quality.
If she wants a hookup, you are the guy, if she wants a relationship you are the guy, plus you aren’t shying away from something casual assuming that she doesn’t want that.