Tinder Profile Do’s and Dont’s (For Guys)

Tinder is definitely the hottest dating app of the moment, having recently announced that it has made over ONE BILLION matches based on liking the profiles of other users. Unlike other dating sites, where it includes a lengthy bio or questionnaire, Tinder is a teensy bit shallow. Due to the fact that users generally spend a mere amount of seconds on a persons profile, there are certain things that instantly make a girl click nope on your profile. So to help you get as many matches, whether youre looking to hit it and quit it, or youre here for the long haul, weve got a with a list of Tinder Dos and Donts.

Now I dont mean you have to go get a professional photographer out to your house to take pictures of you. The first picture should grab her attention and make her want to explore your profile a bit more. It should show you smiling and confident. This could just be a picture from a night out or something that by chance, you happen to look really well in. I hate to admit, but even a sneaky selfie thrown in isnt the worst thing in the whole world, just dont have consecutive selfies on your profile to avoid looking like the male equivalent of Kim K.

You get a selection of five photographs to upload when making your tinder profile, make sure that these arent all photographs of you with a group of people. The reason for this is that if a girl cant differentiate between you and your friends, shes going to just click nope within the first few clicks. The tinder pool of potential matches is far too wide and full of potential for us to waste time trying to figure out if youre the ugly one in your friends group. And, generally speaking, if you just have all group shots, then you usually are!

So shes clicked past your first photo, the next one should show you doing something that youre into. Personally, Im an absolute sucker for a Rugger Bugger (rugby player). And anyone with a photo on a rugby pitch with big shoulders will get an automatic like *swoon*. This shows us that youre active, dedicated to something and probably have an amazing physique. πŸ˜‰

This should go without saying, if youre on a dating site then you shouldnt be in a relationship. But surprise, surprise there are still some humans on this planet who will have no shame in using these apps for casual hookups even if they are coupled up (absolute swines!). No word of a lie, I once came across a chaps profile who had a shot of him and his missus for every photo. If this is your game, then dont expect many matches as most gals dont want to play Suzie homewrecker or be the other woman. Unless shes equally just as much of a pathetic whore as you are!

Its difficult to show your personality with only a choice of five photos, so if you have a hobby that you want to share with people, then do! Your hobbies are what differentiates you from the rest of the pack. Whether its music, art or even a bit of pitch and put if you have a good photo of it throw it up on your profile for good measure. It gives us an idea of what youre into, and hey you never know, we might share some of your interests which can be an instant icebreaker! SCORE!

Think of your Tinder profile almost like a dating CV. You wouldnt want a future employer to see photos of you absolutely mangled at a music festival, or asleep at a house party after your mates drew phallic symbols all over your face. So why would you want a future hookup to see it? On top of that, if you post photos like that most girls will think youre a bit of an immature muppet and will automatically swipe NOPE.

The bio is only a few short lines to describe yourself. Most guys include their job, their height (please dont lie about it) and any other useless information that they deem appropriate. The bio is another section where you can attempt to show your personality, use it to your advantage and try not to sound like a dickhead. Personally, I love a funny bio. A few jokes or even better, a good pun, and you have got a much better chance of a swipe right. Try to include a bio if you can, because without one it looks like your just lazy; too lazy to even write a few measly lines about yourself!

GSOH (good sense of humour) is imperative. If its possible, show us that youre up for a laugh. Include your Halloween costume if it was funny, or maybe you dressed up in drag for a charity event. Whatever it may be, including these photos shows us that youre laid back and dont take yourself too seriously!

Your personal style is another representation of yourself, so pick photos that you look particularly dapper in. Have a photo where youre wearing a tux? Even better! A photo where youre in your work uniform? (Ummm hello, firefighter uniform). It sounds shallow, but a lot of chicks judge a bloke from his attire. So fix up and look sharp!

I dont care if its a picture of your niece or nephew, brother or sister. If you have a photo of you with a sprog on your lap, were automatically gonna assume that its your kid. Most chicks dont want to enter into something with that sort of baggage, so were probably gonna swipe left. However, if you do have a kid, I would still advise not including the parental photos. Including pictures of your kid on a dating site is just weird, and the fact that you have a kid should come up in conversation at a later point.

Yay, Youve made a match! Next step is to open up with an icebreaker. Scope out the girls profile first and try to figure out what shes interested in so that you can open up with the perfect one-liner. Avoid the mundane “Hey gorgeous” or any of that boring bullshit. Youre more likely to get a reply if you open up with a good line or a joke, it shows youre interested in her!

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Tinder Profile Do’s and Dont’s (For Guys)

You get a selection of five photographs to upload when making your tinder profile, make sure that these arent all photographs of you with a group of people. The reason for this is that if a girl cant differentiate between you and your friends, shes going to just click nope within the first few clicks. The tinder pool of potential matches is far too wide and full of potential for us to waste time trying to figure out if youre the ugly one in your friends group. And, generally speaking, if you just have all group shots, then you usually are!

Your personal style is another representation of yourself, so pick photos that you look particularly dapper in. Have a photo where youre wearing a tux? Even better! A photo where youre in your work uniform? (Ummm hello, firefighter uniform). It sounds shallow, but a lot of chicks judge a bloke from his attire. So fix up and look sharp!

So shes clicked past your first photo, the next one should show you doing something that youre into. Personally, Im an absolute sucker for a Rugger Bugger (rugby player). And anyone with a photo on a rugby pitch with big shoulders will get an automatic like *swoon*. This shows us that youre active, dedicated to something and probably have an amazing physique. πŸ˜‰

Its difficult to show your personality with only a choice of five photos, so if you have a hobby that you want to share with people, then do! Your hobbies are what differentiates you from the rest of the pack. Whether its music, art or even a bit of pitch and put if you have a good photo of it throw it up on your profile for good measure. It gives us an idea of what youre into, and hey you never know, we might share some of your interests which can be an instant icebreaker! SCORE!

Yay, Youve made a match! Next step is to open up with an icebreaker. Scope out the girls profile first and try to figure out what shes interested in so that you can open up with the perfect one-liner. Avoid the mundane “Hey gorgeous” or any of that boring bullshit. Youre more likely to get a reply if you open up with a good line or a joke, it shows youre interested in her!

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