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On dating apps, a swipe left means you’re not interested in the person. A swipe right means you ARE interested. However, these swipes left or right have a way bigger impact on your dating success than you know. In this article you’ll find out why, and how to optimize your swiping.
Tinder & the History of Swiping [Swipe Left or Right?]
#1: What does swiping right mean? How does it work?
And NO. The other person does NOT know whether you swipe left or right on Tinder or on any other dating app. General exception being that if they already swipe YOU right, then they obviously will know, since you now have a match.
Swiping is the core action on dating apps. Few men realize how much impact every swipe has on their dating success. And that’s exactly why many men never truly find the love they are looking for.
More on that in a bit. First let’s see when you should swipe right on Tinder.
#2: How to decide if someone is worth swiping?
Because as I just said in the last tip:
Each and every one of your swipes, decides what your dating app adventure will look like.
See, a swipe right tells the app: I like this girl. I am open to the opportunity of meeting her.
This means we can instantly break an old myth:
NO, no you shouldn’t.
Doing so will tell the app:
I am willing to meet and date literally A N Y O N E. I have ZERO standards. In fact, if there’s a pile of cow dung on the app, than I’d still date it.
So, how do you decide if someone is worth swiping?
The obvious answer: If you’d ACTUALLY want to meet them.
The more complex answer:
If you’d ACTUALLY date them if you knew what they are truly like.
Obviously, it’s hard to know them. You can guess what their personality is like, based on their profile text and photos. But both can be misleading in many ways.
The maker of this meme doesn’t seem to care about offending people. But his meme holds truth.
#3: Can you undo a swipe right on Tinder ?
But you can only undo your last swipe on Tinder.
For example, if you just realized that three swipes ago you shouldn’t have swiped your coworker to the right… then you’re too late.
Not only that, you also need to subscribe to one of Tinder’s premium services to use this function.
That is if you have the Rewind function which is part of Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold.
On dating app Badoo, the rewind button will disappear once you swipe right.
On Bumble you’ll get this error message:
If you want to know if it is worth to get the Rewind on Tinder + a little rewind trick to use it best, then read on. I’ll cover those shortly.