Libra man Cancer woman

I am a Cancer woman with the hots for a Libra man. I dont know if we could make a long term relationship work, but man I feel more chemistry with him than anyone else. I would really love to see what that would look like on a more intimate level.

I know our sun signs say we are VERY incompatible, but I have Sagittarius rising, so maybe that would help. I am not the typical Cancer woman. Sure I love my home, but I love being in the spot light and having good friends, things to do, and places to see. Who knows what will happen in the future, but man, I love being around him. It feels really good

I am a Cancer woman dating a Libra man. He is so charming attractive and very skilled in bed. I do get a bit put off by his flirtatious ways but he recognizes that and tries to control it out of respect for me. He is very considerate to my needs and helps control my moodswings.

Im a Libra man dating a Cancer women. I have the best sex with her. We make each other smile. Im always there to help and to make her happy so she doesnt feel insecure. When she is upset I make love to her to make it all better. She will be cheerful again.

im a Cancer women and been with a Libra man for 4 years. we had good times and the sex was amazing. we could talk about anything and everything but money was always a issue and intimacy. I felt he didnt show or prove he loved me enough. so when I met a Taurus man. he made up my mind that I can have better.

I am a Cancer woman and was involved with a Libra man for a little over two years. I recently decided that I should truly let him go. I gave him everything he needed, but I realized that he had the slightest idea as to what I needed. I constantly felt confused and neglected. He constantly had to have someone to feed his ego, but didnt really realize when I needed some attention too. And when I crawled into my shell to recover he would get upset and blame me for having mood swings. He would then feel neglected because I was not there to be his cheerleader 24/7. And then he would go out and get that attention from someone else and blame the whole thing on me. He would never try to understand or compromise so he constantly got what he needed, but I never got what I needed. Anytime I would bring up saving money, paying off bills or want to talk about something emotional he would literally close down, which would make me upset because I was trying to tell him w hat I needed. And I would get even more upset when I found out he would talk to outsiders about his feelings in reference to our relationship and not me. The worst part is that he talked to him to them about our relationship and wouldnt talk to me, the person hes was in a relationship with.

hey! I am a Cancer woman. It is so normal to be attracted by a Libra man. Because they are so social, charming etc etc. Yeah we are so compatible in bed. But sex is not complete thing. We need to feel secure and lots of stuff. Is it so easy to repair heart after all break-ups?

Sex with him is great, we both love it and I feel that is the only thing that brings us together, but is it enough. Me as a Cancer needs a man to love me and make me feel wanted. If I have insecurities, it is because of the way he is. He has time for the whole world, but when it comes to me, I get pushed aside. When we are together we so enjoy each others company that we do not want to leave each other for a second.

Cancer and Libra shouldnt be together, see that Libra wants a mentally connection and that Cancer wants a more emotionally connection. Libra men are not selfish trust me im a Sagittarius whos dated enough Libras to kno).but Ive also had a Cancer friend whos dated a Libra for a year and a have and they were having problems. she thought he didnt know what he want and that he was selfish and he thought he was giving his best that she wasnt accepting the way he is. Libras might seem selfish but trust me they just need communication.

hi im a Cancer woman who has been on and off again w my Libra man for 3 years we are currently living together and although I am completely financially taken care of Im dying to leave. Hes not a bad person but a lot the things he does effects me badly. Also hes fine with watching t.v in separate rooms and keeping his work/friend life all to himself where as I want to sit and talk about my day and his as well. Also things that inspire me and make me emotional, I can tell him about when Im being serious and he just kinda laughs at me like Im stupid or something and that makes me really hate him and his personality. I am also turned off by him always sugar coating everything and trying to keep the peace. All brains and no balls… I hate it. I feel the need to want to fight battles for him at times because he will just go with the flow. Cancer women this is not the man for you. They will think they are inferior to you and will resent them.

im a Cancer teenage girl here and my boyfriend is Libra guy…I know him through internet and we started to dated after we meet twice…everythings runs smoothly at the beginning and things started to changed. me myself, trying my best to hold on longer with our relationship by giving him chance to change his egoness and selfishness…at the end, honestly I was really quite depressed and cried every time I trying to talk to him, he never understands and only knows he is right on everything and im the one who is wrong. I had broke with him few weeks ago and I found a Pisces guy. I had to tell you he is the nicest person I ever meet and know…if you are hitting on a guy that you liked. my suggestion is. checked out his astrology and dont take him rite away! man always act kind in earlier relationships and I dont want you to be upset at the end…this is my advice!

I am a Cancer woman who has dated a Libra man for about 2 months.. I am totally confused. There are times that I think he is into me and then other times I feel like I do not exist. He had been married to a Cancer woman in the past and we have talked about our differences and how it would be work for us to make it happen. We have great dialog all the time but I did tell him that my one fear is that he will not be able to meet my emotional needs. As it turns out, that is true. I just dont understand how he is at times indifferent and other times so caring. It keeps me on edge and insecure which intern annoys him. I really do not think this will work so I am moving on. Too bad because I really, really like him but cannot stick around knowing my basic needs will probably never be met.

Im a Libra man. Ive just ended (I suppose) a 3 month affair with a Cancer woman. She marks probably the most interesting woman Ive ever been with. She is an enigma. She doesnt say anything. She keeps her feelings pent up. She worries. It is charming none the less. She is pretty. Our relationship is/was extremely tender and affectionate at the tactile level. But her moods can turn her to be withdrawn and cool very suddenly. Changeable, as is standard of the Cancer woman. Our connection on the affectionate plane was astonishingly pure and open. We were like children kissing for hours, content in the release and giving for its own sake. But full sexual exploration was strangely obstructed. She couldnt open. She was fearful to let herself go. There was always a scary element for me too. My heart was full of butterflies day and night, sometimes with good feelings sometimes with fearful ones. The butterflies were the same whether good or bad feelings. Full-time elation. I couldnt take it. When apart we only wanted to be together. When together there was always uneasiness, a difficulty in communication. Kissing and hugging were our only sure link. The unexpressed sexuality grew to be an intense and upsetting factor. Our relationship ended one night on a bed. We had agreed to meet and finally spend intimate time together. But she was full of internal conflict. A much closed body language but other signals conveying the opposite. She was fatigued and frustrated, un-relaxed. I sought only to allay her tension. The mood wasnt pleasant but conflicted and tense. The natural underlying unexpressed sexuality combined with the mood. We rested on the bed. She wanted to go. I tried to allay her frustration and asked her to try and relax. We kissed, held hands and lightly caressed. It was finally too much for her. She sat up and declared she was going. I pleaded with her to stay and asked are you crazy? she reacted very strongly – yes, Im crazy! nearly shouting. I affectionately pressed her hands between mine. She snapped -dont touch me! as if I were I were being aggressive. She walked out and has hardly communicated a word to me since. Story over.

I am a Cancer Woman and I have an internet connection with a Libra Man. I am really falling for him in may a fantasy. He seems to be the Practical Man that I am getting to know. We have been chatting and talking on the phone for a few months now, and very soon like in a matter if a week or two we will come together. Its a lot of sexual aggression there on both our parts. I am a very sociable Cancer Woman, He is a very sociable Libra Man. I think in taking our age into consideration both in our late 40s we have matured in many areas and I do fall into the emotional area but I am not needy…I do see that We are more in communication when its convenient for Him. But I also take in consideration He is very professional and very busy and He does make this clear to me and keeps me at bay. So when I want to communicate and He is to occupied I just communicate with others but I keep my intimate communications exclusive only for him. I really dont quite know exactly where we are, relationship wise, He said He feels the way I do about wanting to be together but Im looking for him to realize that once we become intimate I expect him to be exclusive and be my man. I dont care if he is flirtatious, its actually helps promotes his business, but I want the understanding that I will be his one and only but dont know how to communicate that. So far I am content and happy to know him.

Im a Cancer woman trying to understand a Libra man that I have fallen so deep in love with! we have seen each other for 9mos. and its been a interesting ride! He approached me and obtained all of my attention from the start! He is a very hard working man but is extremely set in his ways…its his way or no way! Trying to compromise with him to do things I like sometimes is a no go. So I accepted it, and tried to develop a relationship with him. The sex was always awesome and the conversations as well, but it was always a missing link to this….then, just when I thought the relationsip could work, he tells me out of the blue that he wasnt ready to be in a relationship but wants to remain friends with me?? Yes Cancer women, be very careful when dealing with Libra Men. You will end up being very hurt!

im a Cancer woman dating a Libra guy for nearly 8 months, I am besotted with him, he is so lovely I dont think I will ever want to let him go. At the beginning he did kind of be really nice then all of a sudden he would not call or text me back but ther reason behind that was is that he wanted to see if I missed him and also im pretty sure he wanted me to chase him. Now its the other way round and I love it, he is also way too good in bed 😉 also he is a good listener and very caring towards me, but he is a very busy man whick is good for me as I know he is building for his/ours future. cancers and libras can definately make it work as long as you communicate well and try to understand and compromise with each other. My man definately likes to socialise and yes I am a very homely person but I do like going out with him & best of all hes the only man who has treated me very nicely.

My sons father is a Libra. Worst match ever. Firstly, he intentionally got me pregnant (took off the condom and didnt tell me until two weeks after the fact) because he thought that if I got pregnant I wouldnt go away to school. Then when I got pregnant by him three years later and asked him to keep the baby for my last two months of school (a senior in college) he told me no because it wasnt his responsible and that I needed to drop out, start studying to become a Jehovah Witness or else we were done. So basically he dumped me because he said that I was “uncontrollable/unpredictable” and because I wouldnt convert to his religion. (oh yea, I ended up losing the baby. According to him I killed it. How caring of him) Then he goes and marries an 18 year old Cancer. Maybe he can control her. Probably not! Bastard.

Hi there girls..Im a Cancer who was in relationship with a Libra man 4 yearsa ago…We were attracted to each other, had good long conversations but I always felt he was ignoring me at times esp when I wanted some emotional support from him.I felt that he was jsut not serious about our relationship.I let him go and believe me he wasnt bothered even to save our relationship which was once so fondled. But trust me girls we cancerians are emotional being I still think about him , miss him but its for our own good that we let them go..we cannot be happy with a Libra man…we need someone who shower love and care on us…they are not just made for us…take cautious

Im a Cancer female, 21 years old. My best friend is a Libra guy, 24. We got along extremely well since the first time we talked. Instant chemistry. Hours of talking and laughing. No sexual attraction on either side, reason being why were only friends. I feel very safe when Im around him. Also, very excited and full of energy! I love it. We spark each other off in chemistry and can have sooo much fun no matter what we do just because we love each others way of speaking so much. I truly think hes the funniest person Ive ever met. Weve never had any sort of argument and we always discuss things calmly and rationally. The first time I talked to him, I remember the first thing that caught my attention was how much he said things that I could relate to. I feel like Ive found a soulmate. Every one of his friends is someone I find awesome as well and vice versa. Theres a lot more I could say like how we talk on the phone almost every day and we just spend the enti re conversation laughing, how kind we are to each other, how open our communication is, and how much we trust each other. We are also very affectionate, though he seems emotionally closed and I seem emotionally open but mentally closed. We balance each other out. After every time we hang out we hug tightly and usually say something to make each other laugh one last time.

One thing I noticed is how we have so much respect for each other, we can have different opinions about things and I just appreciate him more for it because I respect his point of view and I instinctively feel he must have a good reason for feeling that way. He always has the best advice. You have no idea how much his balanced, calm, rational advice helps my imbalanced cancerian emotions. The things I appreciate the most are the trust between us and that we can laugh about anything, even serious subjects, meaning we can talk about anything and it never gets too emotional. I also love how much we have in common..we like all the same activities, the same exact kind of music, the same movies, the same tv shows, have the same sense of humor, and we also dislike all the same things lol. Its great, really!

The thing is that I have a Libra ascendant, while he has a Cancer ascendant. Libras with Taurus moons are double Venus people, so they are extremely charming. And in numerology the number 1 from his day of birth is ruled by then sun. The sun and Venus combine also to make a very likeable personality. He also has the Cancer ascendant whcih blends the moon with the sun and Venus qualities. I am also a sun Venus moon person, because my day of birth is 6 which is ruled by venus, and I have a Leo moon which makes me sunny and jovial. Of course my sun in Cancer comprises the moon part. Also, our composite chart which basically shows what the end result of a relationship will be shows a sun, mars, and mercury conjunction which shows our mental chemistry, and many nice jupiter, neptune and pluto aspects, which shows our good will and trust. Venus is also in the first house which means our relationship is based on love and affection and that we were very fond of each other from the first time we talked, and that is true.

Im a Cancer woman divorced from a Libra man after seven years of marriage. Initially the attraction and physical chemistry was great but just as quickly, both fizzled. We had a bond of friendship for many years. But libras can never provide cancers with the emotional fulfillment that cancers crave and as a result, physical intimacy will not endure. The relationship will always seem superficial and this is fine for libras but cancers will feel an emptiness. Yes, hes charming, witty and intelligent but I long for something more…

Im a Cancer woman divorced from a Libra man after seven years of marriage. Initially the attraction and physical chemistry was great but just as quickly, both fizzled. We had a bond of friendship for many years. But libras can never provide cancers with the emotional fulfillment that cancers crave and as a result, physical intimacy will not endure. The relationship will always seem superficial and this is fine for libras but cancers will feel an emptiness. Yes, hes charming, witty and intelligent but I long for something more…

hi. im a Cancer woman dating a Libra man, we have been dating on and off for almost two years. we just recently moved to chicago and are living together. he can be pretty selfish sometimes and sometimes I feel like I dont get any emotional support from him to be truly honest im happy with him when we are not fighting but deep inside hes not the person I want to be with forever and when we argue I literally want to take a baseball bat and beat him up its pretty intense but yeah cancers should stay away from libras the passion will eventualy disapear and there will be nothing left in the relationship.

I am a Libra man who was totally infatuated with a Cancer woman for almost a year. We hung out rarely(less than once a month on avg) because she was so busy with activities but managed to let her know that she was always on my mind. I would text or e-mail her just to see how she was doing. When we did hang out it was always fun and each conversation was filled with laughter. I thought I was gaining ground until she told me that she didnt have romantic feelings for me. I was disappointed and decided to give her plenty of space. Im not bitter at all. She is a beautiful person who will make some lucky man very happy.

Im a 40 year old Cancer woman, was with a quiet Libra man for the last seven months. Unfortunately we could not get past our issues and never really understood each other even though for some reason I still took him back after several attempts at a break up. There is a weird bond between a Libran anc Cancerian but Libra will never satisfy the emotional needs of a Cancerian as Librans come across as selfish and cold sometimes but it is not the case just Librans dont think. Ladies reading this, just be wary when dating a Libran as they have roving eyes and always distracted by other women. You must be a very confident Cancer to be with a Libran. Also they hate confrontation and will never satisfactorily solve or compromise on an issue. Will tell you they will try their best to change but in the end same issue comes up again and again. But I will give my ex libran this compliment he did try his hardest in changing things. But we are too differenct and will never fully connect on any level.

Hi girls, Im a Libra guy that married a Cancer girl. She was very sexy looking and loyal. I never had to even give that a thought. I knew she was all mine. A great home maker too. Would do anything to please me. We met when I was 28 and she was 25. I got rid of her a year later. Drove me crazy being so needy. It was easy to read her feelings. But most times she put my feelings first anyway.The easyest way to make her feel not needy Or insecure was to make love. She was very tender and real in that area. Although not confedent with her body. But while making love I would really have to lead her past being this way by not giving her that option. Very female and intamate. In the intelectual area I was not stimulated by her. Not that she was not smart, because she was! Just not on the same operating level. Our big connection was honesty of feelings, tenderness and lots of sex, all the time!! We are both in our fifties now, she never remarried, I have a couple of times . I know that we could pick up right where we left off. But I know the relationship would again feel empty in that one area. I feel sad about that because everything else we were very tightly connected. Something I have never since had. The reason Ive come to this site now is because Ive met anouther Cancer girl. And really we are just friends, one main reason for me and Im sure for her, is because Im 54 and shes 25. But I see the same kind of tender sexy female with her too. But again I have yet to see that comunication style or what have you, that makes the hours out of bed, as close, fun and stimulating as in bed…

Cancer woman dating a Libra man. We have been together four years. Its not easy but it is rewarding. I do struggle with mood swings and he doesnt ever let emotions speak for him, instead he is rational. Its frustrating at times because arguing is an easy solution to me, duke it out, get all your feelings on the table, and then make up. He doesnt allow me to get all my feelings out on the table therefore I have learned to solve a lot of our issues on my own. This can cause a boiling pot that explodes… There has always been an unsettled feeling, I wonder if he is the right one for me. All I can say is we have grown up a lot together, he is my support system being so rational, and he does truly love me a lot. He complains to me that ive made him sensative! I think our oppositions give room of growth. Having a family together one day will allow our kids to see both sides, both emotional support and rational support.

I ama Cancer woman, my boyfriend is a libra-man.We have been together now for almost 4yrs.i are thinking about getting married at times I do feel as if he doesnt care about my feelings even when we talk about them or I express it in some way or another but after a while he will start to show me that he really do care. For example, I love it when my man calls me first thing when he just wakes up. he likes to call me after he gets everything done and have time for himself to relax. I told him when he wakes up he can just call and say good morning and then calls me back when he has time. some days he do other days he dont…

tonight we had a dissagreement he hung up on me and then call right back to say good night… I love him and I know that he loves me too. we strongly believe that this relationship will last for ever but it will need some comparmising and more understanding from both ends..

I m a Cancer girl 20 been dating a Libra man 20 for three months now we get along great and have amazing sex but besides that how we communicate sucks big time I like to know the person I m with is all mine and that I can have full trust in them but after being hurt to many times I feel like if I let my gard down again he could hurt me bad at times I do feel like he is selfish I Try and express to him how I feel and he always says okay I will Start talking more and calling a bit more he does for a about a couple days then goes back to his old ways o feel like my feeling dont matter like its his way or no way I love him so much and when we are together we have a great time and its full of nothing but laughs and smiles but once he live its like pulling teeth to get him to talk to me I know he loves me cuz he got me a ring and he tells me but sometimes I wonder what he really wants with us he has to be the most confessing sing I ever dated. I m not ready to throw in the towel just yet but how to I keep feeling alone with I m with him I shouldnt feel like that any help pls?

Im a 24 year old cancerian engaged to a 26 libran. When are good, were good, but when its bad its Bad. when we first started dating it was GREAT! We talked daily and didnt want to be apart from each other. We could talk for hours on the phone about anything, laugh and joke about anything. But one thing about the Libra men is they can never comprehend how we feel, even when we are telling them upfront exactly how we feel. We are still currently together trying to make it work, but there are doubts on my part because he doesnt feel like the one for me because issues that I may feel passionately about he just blows off like they are small. He constantly tells me how he is gonna change but a few weeks later we are arguing about the same thing again. Also with the moodswings we have, for a libran man its hard for them to deal with because they are always trying to fix things and often times say the wrong things (which makes the situation worse) when all we want is for them to just understand.

I have had situations were there were disputes between my fiance and his family & ex-girlfriend. For example: He was friends with his ex-girlfriend, they had been friends for 11 years and I had accepted that but my only issue was there was no boundaries. She felt she could call and text whenever and at any time she wanted, and he allowed it. So I spoke my peace and his fix for the situation was to tell me I was overreacting and he would tell her to stop (and he did) but she kept it up and I finally told him to cut all ties with her (he did for about a month) until she text him and he decided to write her back behind my back (I found out because he forgot to delete a text were he was talking about our relationship to her) BIG NO NO!!!!, which in turn made me feel like he was choosing their “friendship” over our relationship even when he was telling me he Loved me.

I dont know where we stand! I know he loves me, as I do him, he will do anything to make me happy but his selfishness and inability to understand how emotional us cancerian are is making it hard for this relationship to work. If we can learn to communicate better and he respects my emotions instead of trying to make me feel like what Im feeling is wrong that I should let everything go…..

Im a Cancer woman dating a Libra woman I can say its the best relationship I ever expireance not only is she the first girlfriend I ever had she is the love of my life she attends to my every needs I might have she is always putting me first than anything also security with a Libra man / woman is always ther she satisfies me in

I am a Cancer woman who was married to a Libra man for ten years. I was attracted to him because he was charming, fun, and the life of the party. We had a great friendship….but he definitely had a wandering eye. We both liked having a beautiful house and throwing parties–where he would entertain all of the guests and I would do all of the work. Sex was good in the beginning, then non-existent after he started going off trying to bolster his ego and I was left at home wondering what happened.

Ive been with my Libra guy four months. We met online at a time when the last thing I was looking for was a relationship, but we talked everyday and it looked like things were heading that way albeit, very, very SLOWLY. Took months and months of chatting online, demurely flirting before we finally met up.

I love him and care about him a lot and want this to work but its definitely been very trying. I do feel that he is kind of selfish. The key though is communication. When I feel unsure or miffed I want to retreat and I cant do that here. I have to talk to him and tell him why Im upset. It feels weird to do so, but its part of a healthy relationship.

hi! I am a teenager and I am a Cancer woman dating a Libra man. we have been only dating for a month and it is amazing! he puts a smile on my face everyday. to be honest, when I have boyfriends I am really shy but with him im not afraid to be myself. we had been friends for a couple of months and then that day came and he asked me… for him being a Libra I must say he is very loving and caring. the only thing wrong is that when im upset or crying he seems to ignore me instead of comforting me. other than that he is the sweetest man I could of ever dated. my heart is so happy and so am one saying says “be with who makes you smile;be with who makes you laugh; with the one who makes every minute ofevery hour of everyday wothwhile.” I know not all libras are the same. it depends on the personality.

I am a 24 year old Cancer woman in a confusing relationship with a 25 year old Libra man. We met when we were 15 years old at a high school dance and our relationship has been magnetic ever since. There has always been an intense sexual attraction and during the first years of knowing each other our relationship was mainly physical although we developed a unique friendship. I have always had deeper feelings for him but was afraid to tell him for fear of loosing any contact with him because he seemed to always be a very independent person.

We went to college in different cities but he would still call me every once in a while to see how I was even if I had a boyfriend or he had a girlfriend. I became used to keeping some distance with him and gaining satisfaction from a flirtatious relationship but deep down there was always hope in my heart that he would fall for me as I had for him. He is by far the most charming man I have ever met and very successful with work. I, being a shy but still social Cancer woman find his personality magnetic and Im always somewhat in awe of him.

After college we moved back to our hometown and began seeing each other more. I had another boyfriend for a while and we remained friends and Id sometimes ask him for romantic advice although he was never very serious about it. I always felt there was something more with us but being insecure and hurt in other relationships, I doubted anything would ever come of it. A few months ago he began calling more and wanting me to spend more time with him. Our random steamy hookups turned into him asking me to stay the night and spend more and more time with him. I was confused but went along with seeing him more because he is very irresistible and we always had a good time laughing and being together. One night he asked me to come over so that we could celebrate the new jobs that we had both just gotten. The catch was that his job would make him travel for the next 6 months. I was heartbroken when I heard this but despite a great deal of inner emotional turmoil I decided to still sp end time with him before he left. That night was by far the best of my life. He revealed his feelings for me and told me that he loved me and he always had but that since we met each other when we were so young, he knew that our relationship would never work if we had been together then. He said hed always pictured himself ending up with me and that if he did he would essentially be marrying his high school sweetheart. His parents were going through a divorce at that time and he said he didnt want there to be any resentments between us that would tear us apart like it did them because we are both still young and have a lot we want to do (he wants to become more established in the business world and I am waiting to hear back about veterinary school and could potentially move out of state). I understood where he was coming from and was too happy to really disagree and insist that we be in a full blown relationship right then. After all, he is truly charismatic and when Im around him I find most of what he says to be a good idea.

We spent the last few weeks that he was home virtually inseparable. He told me he loved me all the time, was very romantic and sweet, and made me feel completely satisfied and happy. Ive never loved anyone so deeply and completely in my life and Im not sure I ever will but there are definitely some problems with our personalities. Im not 100% sure what he would say from his end but now that he is gone, we dont talk as much as Id like to. I want to be emotionall

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