If a Girl Ghosts You, Disappears, and Stops Texting – Do This!

I’ve been casually dating a girl for about 10 weeks. I’ve been on 6 dates going out every other week. We went out again on second date and held hands, then finally kissed on second date. I did feel she was a bit structured, but we enjoyed our time together. She would pay for drinks if I paid for meal and she appeared very considerate. I proposed going out again on our last date and that may have been a mistake as I wasn’t as mysterious.

After the date, she usually texts me something but I noticed she did not do it this time so I asked her how her weekend was and we exchanged a little. Then a few days later, I texted her asking what she was planning to do in NYC as I lived there in past and I could give her suggestions on tips. She never replied.

The most likely reason for her pulling away is the sense that you were chasing a little bit too hard here by reaching out to her first. Women can be very sensitive about this, especially before you have become intimate. It doesn’t take much these days to turn a woman off and kill attraction.

Having said that, a week is nothing to worry about. It’s not unusual for women to pull away for 2 to 3 weeks, sometimes more. If she felt as though you were chasing her too hard, then she is going to test you by pulling away and seeing how you react.

If you’ve been ghosted by a woman, the most likely reason is because you either failed to display adequate value as a man, or you didn’t hold her interest enough to maintain a position of positive romantic attraction on her radar. In essence, she ‘ghosted’ you to avoid having an awkward “I’m not into you” conversation.

Do THIS If She Ghosts You

If a Girl Ghosts You, Disappears, and Stops Texting – Do This!

The most likely reason for her pulling away is the sense that you were chasing a little bit too hard here by reaching out to her first. Women can be very sensitive about this, especially before you have become intimate. It doesn’t take much these days to turn a woman off and kill attraction.

After the date, she usually texts me something but I noticed she did not do it this time so I asked her how her weekend was and we exchanged a little. Then a few days later, I texted her asking what she was planning to do in NYC as I lived there in past and I could give her suggestions on tips. She never replied.

I’ve been casually dating a girl for about 10 weeks. I’ve been on 6 dates going out every other week. We went out again on second date and held hands, then finally kissed on second date. I did feel she was a bit structured, but we enjoyed our time together. She would pay for drinks if I paid for meal and she appeared very considerate. I proposed going out again on our last date and that may have been a mistake as I wasn’t as mysterious.

Having said that, a week is nothing to worry about. It’s not unusual for women to pull away for 2 to 3 weeks, sometimes more. If she felt as though you were chasing her too hard, then she is going to test you by pulling away and seeing how you react.

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