How to Turn a Guy on Through Text Message

14+ Messages to Subtly Tease a Guy over Text
  1. 1 Stick to what feels natural.
  2. 2 Use punctuation and emojis to hint at your meaning.
  3. 3 Give him a silly nickname and use it when you’re texting.
  4. 4 Act like you’re not that interested in him.
  5. 5 Don’t say anything.
  6. 6 Poke fun at some of his habits.

How To Tease a Guy With Texting

Method 1Method 1 of 2:Following Text Etiquette

  • Question How can I make a guy obsessed with me over text message? John Keegan Dating Coach John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Mens Health. John Keegan Dating Coach Expert Answer Try giving him compliments to show your interest and make him feel good. A little playful teasing can also make you sound more flirty.
  • Question What if that guy is my best friend and hes also my other best friends boyfriend? He tells me he doesnt like her anymore and needs my help, and tells me hes crushing on me. Community Answer First off, that is wrong on so many levels. Cheating is never something you want to be involved with. All it will get you is a whole lot of drama. Tell your friend what is going on and see what you can work out from there. But whatever you do, do not cheat on your best friend.
  • Question I sent my crush a text saying, “hey handsome” and he replied right away with “lol.” Did I miss something or what? Community Answer He might just have felt weird or been surprised if you never talked/texted him that way before. Or he doesnt think hes handsome and thinks that was a funny thing to call him. It also kind of depends on your age; if youre in your early teens or something, that might not be language that people your age tend to use and it might be a little awkward. Rather than using the exact example from the article, you should just follow the general guidelines and say something that comes naturally to you.
  • Question How can I keep a guys interest? Community Answer Be yourself. Dont try to turn him on: if its there its there, if its not its not.
  • Question What if someone likes you but theyre dating someone else? Community Answer Wait it out. Dont be a homewrecker and ruin his relationship. If you do end up together you will be starting up your relationship off on a negative note and he will remember it. Wait until hes single before you start dating.
  • Question What can I do if he doesnt like me? Community Answer Unfortunately, you cant make someone like you. The best, and healthiest, thing for you to do would be to move on. Flirting with the guy in hopes of getting him to like you will only push him further away from you. If you are already friends with this guy, you might even lose his friendship entirely.
  • Question How do I make a guy want me more? Community Answer Be independent and confident. Guys love someone who is able to stand up for themselves. Dont text him constantly. If you text him once or twice a week and tell him about all the fun stuff youve been doing, he will want to be part of it. JUST BE YOURSELF. There is no faster way to lose a guy than to pretend like you are someone else. Dont pretend to like everything he likes or he will get weirded out. Just be yourself, have your own interests, and pretty soon, he will want you like candy.
  • Question What can I do if hes playing hard to get when he really likes me? Community Answer Play hard to get back. Show him that you will not chase him.
  • Question How can I tell if a guy likes me? Community Answer If hes coming up with reasons to text with you, he likes you.
  • Question How can I turn a guy on if he doesnt know me or doesnt like me? Community Answer If the guy doesnt know you, introduce yourself to him and go from there. If he doesnt like you, its best to move on and find someone who does.
  • Stay true to yourself; dont text him something out of character or something you wouldnt feel comfortable saying in person. Thanks! Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
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  • Do not send sexually suggestive or explicit texts to someone you just met—its creepy and can be considered a form of harassment. Thanks! Helpful 26 Not Helpful 3
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