How to tell if someone is actually busy or just not that into you

When she wants you but is always busy

They’ll also call you when they know you’re not available — or when they can’t talk for long.

is she really busy or not interested

Calling you at an odd time when no reasonable person is awake or when theyre about to board a plane means they dont really want to talk at all.

“Its to keep it short, its to keep you distanced,” she said.

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“New relationships can have hiccups, and the hiccups can look a lot like hot and cold or game playing,” she said. “People are scared. Its a territory where were known to get our feelings hurt. Theres a lot of missteps and miscommunication.”

While the early stages of a budding romance can plague even the most self-assured people with doubts about their next move, Winter advises going with your gut feeling.

“You have a very good sense of whether your partner is interested,” she said. “Youre going to feel it. There are your fears that you have that you know, but then theres your gut reaction thats going to be guiding you.”

is she really busy or not interested

“Just ask them straight up, Hey, you into this?” she said. “It puts them on the spot, but at least you get resolution.”

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