How to Make a Girl Laugh | 5 Tips from a Comedian
How to Make A Girl Laugh: 9 Steps
All the tricks to learning how to make a girl laugh are here in this section. Just follow these 8 steps, and you will have her chuckling, chortling, giggling, and more in minutes.
Here are 8 powerful steps on how to make a girl laugh:
Humour, in my experience, is the best way to someones heart. But knowing how to make a girl smile can seem really difficult. All you need is a bit of confidence, a splash of silliness and a few funny compliments are you will have her smiling in no time.
Another great way to get someone smiling to have a jokes up your sleeve. When you go into a conversation armed with hilarious jokes and stories, you will never run out of things to say to a girl you like.
Getting someone to laugh is about what you say, but it is also about how you present yourself. If you want her to laugh, approach her in a relaxed fashion.
Then, you want to communicate to her through your body language that she should feel relaxed too and be ready to be amused.
Do that by preparing yourself to laugh as well. Smile, make eye contact, and loosen up.
This is almost a repeat of step 1, but it is worth the repetition. Nothing ruins humor like flubbing your lines and getting too nervous.
Be confident that you can get her to laugh, and that confidence will help sell your humor.
If you struggle with confidence, try to use that as part of the joke. Another trick is to start out with a simple question that gets a chuckle (see Step 7).
That can boost your confidence early so you can caring on better.
There are two real methods to make her laugh. One is covered in Steps 3-6 and one is covered in Step 7.
To begin getting her to laugh by the first method, use what is called observation comedy.
Use what is around you: the guy in the silly tie across the room, the awful, ridiculous essay question on the test you just took, the awful drinks the bartender is mixing.
A little observation about these things while using Steps 1 and 2 can get her chuckling in agreement and give you an in to a long conversation full of laughs.
Self-deprecation is being able to laugh at yourself. If you want to know how to make a girl laugh, try to gently mock yourself to show her you have a sense of humor about your faults.
Good examples of this are using the above observations to mock yourself a little.
Talk about your own poor clothing choices, the terrible answer you gave to that ridiculous essay question, or your poor drinking ability.
This style of humor avoids any potential offense (see Step 6) and gives her the opportunity to compliment you.
From self-deprecation to some gentle teasing of her: you can move on to some sweet but slightly chiding comments about her.
This can easily be used to secretly compliment her. Using the above examples:
Tell her that shes too stylish to be able to pull off ugly clothes, it takes a special talent that she just doesnt have.
Or, tell her that her essay answers are too good and shes making the class look bad.
Finally, in the last case, you can tell her shes either got great tastes in cocktails or shes bribing the bartender if her drink isnt awful.
The one thing you want to avoid: Dont be too hard on her. Instead, use this as a way to show you are interested in her by how much you notice her.
This is key to this method. You want to answer how to make a girl laugh, not how to make a girl walk away.
Some girls like raunchy and more controversial comedy, but unless you know her well already, dont assume shes one of those girls, or that shell take it well from you.
The teasing in Steps 3, 4, and 5 is meant to be done with some sweetness, to laugh at minor flaws or to purposefully exaggerate problems. Dont slip into mean-spiritedness.
Thats a major turn-off and is more likely to get her angry than laughing.