How to Flirt With Older Men

Here’s how to successfully flirt with a guy who’s older.
  1. Acknowledge the age gap.
  2. Don’t pretend to know about things you don’t know about.
  3. Ask him for advice.
  4. Don’t assume that your age makes you more appealing than other women.
  5. Don’t assume he’s rich.
  6. Be yourself.

How to Flirt With Older Men (Get Them Chasing You)

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  • Question How can you tell if an older man likes you? John Keegan Dating Coach John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Mens Health. John Keegan Dating Coach Expert Answer Pay attention to his body language too to see if youre a good match. The way he talks and moves his body can be a good indicator of whether theres chemistry between you.
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  • Though the laws vary from state to state, it is illegal in the US for adults to enter into sexual relationships with minors.[4] If youre under the age of 18, wait until youre a legal adult to flirt with older men. Thanks! Helpful 2 Not Helpful 0
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    If you want to flirt with an older man, avoid bringing up his age. Instead of explaining why you’re attracted to older men, tell him why you’re interested in him specifically. For example, compliment his salt and pepper hair or the way he dresses. Older men like independence, so show him you don’t need him to support you financially and don’t be afraid to tell him your opinion on things. Maintain eye contact when you talk and lean in close when he speaks so he knows you’re interested. While you might be younger, use it to your advantage by dressing in outfits that someone older might not be able to pull off. For more tips, like how to talk about the age difference, read on!

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