You need to grab the other person’s attention. Anyone can message “Heyyy” or send a GIF. Make them remember you. If you’re confident, send something funny or a bit risque. Just don’t be an everyman that’s just going to disappear into a list of matches never to be seen again.
Keep it simple and straight to the point. Nine times out of ten they won’t rate cheesy gifs or weird chat up lines, just get straight into a nice and flowing convo. Ask how their day was or if they have plans for the weekend – it’s really not difficult. Then after establishing a bit of chat, the convo can get more interesting. Just sometimes a sext at 10am from a random Tinder match just isn’t needed.
- Option #1: Start a Tinder Conversation with Their Name & a Food Question. …
- Option #2: Start a Tinder Conversation with a Game. …
- Option #3: Start a Tinder Conversation by Referencing Something in Their Bio.
Different Ways To Say Hi On Tinder And Get A Response
best ways to say hi on tinder?
“Hi,” “hello,” or “hey” is fine, and probably the best way to start a conversation on Tinder, as long as you include a question along with it. A simple, yet effective thing to say is “Hey, how’s it going?” When you include a question, you give your match something to reply to to start a conversation.
Don’t wait for the other person to message, make the first move
Don’t be that person that waits for someone else to message you first – chances are they’re doing the same thing too and they won’t bother. There’s a reason you swiped right – tell them. Guys especially like confident girls who don’t wait to messaged first – it’s ballsy. Drop your match a quick message, what have you got to lose?
“What’s up, Hayley?” is just way too upfront and a bit creepy – I guess it’s nice that you’ve noticed their name and bothered to use it, but it’s just a bit much. Wait until you’re a bit further in before you get personal.
Get the convo going by evoking some sort of emotion
If you get some emotion into the conversation it’s the best way to make it memorable. Make them happy with a compliment, excited with something daring or surprised by sharing you might have in common by looking at their profile.