9 Steps From ‘Hi’ to Hookup: How to Hook Up on Tinder

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If you’re looking for a Tinder hookup, the most important thing you can do is first to start a conversation. After a match: Start with something light and fun. You might try a simple, “Hey, what’s up?” or perhaps a corny pickup line, if that’s more your style.
  1. Your Tinder Photos. The most important factor for your Tinder hookups success is your Tinder photos. …
  2. Your Bio Matters. The second most important factor for your Tinder hookup success is your bio. …
  3. Your Opening Messages. …
  4. Asking her out.

How To Hook Up On Tinder

Step #1: Most important 2 things to know

In this tip, I’m going to tell you something you wish you’d known the day you downloaded Tinder.

As you likely know, most men are open to hookups.

Even the ones looking for relationships are open for an adventure on the way.

But all of them make the same mistake:

Although they might be looking for a hookup, the women they’re talking to have no clue of their intentions.

The ladies only see a profile and bio that labels them as a platonic friend or boyfriend.

Most men suffer from the massive misconception that you have to be hyper gentle and sweet to get women. In short, the male majority believes that women don’t like casual sex.

Plot Twist: women are sexual just like you

Profiles that show what they THINK women want to see.

And end up making the following profile mistakes:

  • Sweet, smiling photos
  • An overdose of pettability: pictures your newborn nephew, you with your family over Christmas, …
  • Boyish vacation pictures
  • A well-behaved profile text
  • Signs of a successful, balanced life
  • The anti-casual sex belief also infects the way men text women.

    When it comes to texting, misguided men make the next mistakes:

  • Asking boring interview-style questions
  • Completely unnecessary use of emojis
  • Long aimless conversations
  • Fake get-to-know-you topics like ‘her day’
  • Ask yourself, do you think the above profiles and lines get girls in the mood for a Tinder hookup?

    Let me answer that for you in case you’re still unsure:

    It’s up to you to show her your MANLY side.

    You need to be sending a clear signal that says you are hookup material.

    And that’s exactly what I am going to teach you in this article.

    Step #2: Tinder hook up openers

    Time to arm you with the best hook up openers.

    In the last tip, I just told you to step away from aimless chit chat.

    If you want to hook up, you want to arm yourself with texts that are funny, teasing, and even challenging

    Here’s an example of a guy safeguarding his virginity:

    It looks like the girl of this screenshot is way more likely to get laid than our virgin buddy.

    Just to make sure you won’t ever copy his mistakes, let’s quickly analyze his texts: Hey

    This is the peasant opener. The ultimate display of lack of creativity. It’s rumored to put more girls to sleep than melatonin. Nothing wb you

    When she asks him what’s up, he says ‘nothing’. He has nothing going on. Nothing happens in his life, I guess. Then he follows it up with a couple of abbreviations.

    Holy Tip:

    One of the quickest ways to scare a good amount of women is by using childish abbreviations, poor spelling, and incorrect grammar.

    And last but not least, he hits her with a compliment: I love the name Nikki don’t know why

    Not like she had to work to get it. As she politely points out.

    By now, chances of him getting a reply have gone down by about 69%.

    The opposite side of the spectrum is also very real.

    Guys making it VERY clear what they’re after:

    Let’s look at a Tinder hook up line that does give the girl an idea of what you’re after…

    …without being hyper boring or too explicit:

    But I’ll be honest with you:

    And while I agree that you want to telegraph what you’re after, the very start of the conversation is not the best time for radical honesty.

    Here’s the goal of your opener:

    Break the ice and start a conversation.

    And here’s the twist:

    So why not use an opener that DOES get tons of replies, and leads to the hookup part afterward?

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