When she says “There’s no chemistry”
2. No Form Of Connection When You Both Share Ideas
This is one of the major signs that there is no chemistry between you and somebody. When you can neither see their point of view nor can they see yours, the connection between you people that proves there is chemistry is just not there.
Chemistry is present between two people when one is able to connect with whatever the other person in the relationship says. There won’t be any form of misinterpretation of words when the connection is there. Therefore, chemistry is absent when there is no connection of ideas!
When there is no chemistry between you and someone, you don’t want to have any form of physical or mental relationship with them. For instance, when two people who are dating sit some meters away from each other, the chemistry between them tends to draw them closer.
But when there is no form of chemistry, they move far away from each other just as how the north poles of a magnet repel one another. No matter how you try to force things, the closeness is never possible.
Therefore, when there is chemistry between people, they will always associate with each other in any way.
You might be wondering what informality has to do with relationships, well, this shows there is comfortability. When there is no chemistry, you are never comfortable with that partner of yours who you are dating. You always want to be polite and proper when they are around you. It’s a must to look organized and corporate around them.
If this is how your current supposed relationship is, then I’m telling you chemistry is absent between you and that guy or girl.
There is nothing as bad as a disappointment when you are dating somebody. You don’t feel the vibe from the relationship chemistry each and every time you are with that guy or girl. This kind of thing happens when the bond between two individuals is not strong enough to bring trust in their relationship. There won’t be any spark when there is disappointment, or will you love to have a relationship with someone you feel disappointed with? It’s impossible.
6. You Prefer To Be With Someone Else
When you are with somebody you are dating, and you are never happy being with them; instead, you always want to be with someone else, then chemistry is absent. The chemistry between two people brings happiness, joy, and everything good to the relationship, and both parties will always want to be together. Even when they seem to be disconnected from each other due to work or any issue, they will always want to make sure there is a connection.
When there is little or no eye contact from two people who are dating, the chemistry between them is absent. You can’t make eye contact for long with someone you don’t like or love; instead you keep taking a glance.
You don’t seem comfortable when your eyes turn four with that of your partner. This shows that you don’t have anything in common. Therefore there is no form of chemistry at all.
8. It’s Always Hard To Please Each Other
No matter how you try to make things work out between you and your partner, the relationship just doesn’t seem to work. When this happens, then you are not connected together at all. You both don’t know what to do about it nor are you willing to work on it.
I have been approached so many times by a lot of people who asked me if chemistry matters in a relationship and I’ve always told them my answer is, yes. Chemistry matters a lot and it makes a big difference in a relationship.
Yes, I know it’s a friendship that often develops into relationships, but along the line of development, there is this emotional connection that tends to be strong between two people who started as friends. This strong connection is what chemistry is all about.
Both of you must be fully connected in some ways emotionally. No partial connection, it has to be equal. If the north and south poles of a magnet don’t feel the same way towards each other, there can’t be any attraction between them.
For instance, if you are in the mood to make love with your partner but that partner of yours does not feel like making love at that moment, then chemistry is absent. It’s only the sexual attraction that is present, nothing else. You know the feeling is one-sided.
I’d like to note that chemistry is different from attraction. If there are no mutual feelings, there is nothing like chemistry. Feelings must not be one-sided for you to feel chemistry in your relationship. There needs to be some kind of reaction for chemistry to occur. And for reaction to occur, two entities that have an affinity for each other must be involved.