We aren’t going to lie. Loving a Virgo man isn’t easy. His nitpicking tendency to correct you all the time, neurotic cleaning habits, borderline hypochondria, and refusal to share bathrooms can get to one. “If he loves me, why does he have to take a shower after sex?” “What kind of a lover is always telling me what I’m doing wrong?” Virgo, that’s who.
Virgo Man Shortcomings In Relationship
His criticism isn’t indicative of his dislike of you–he can’t help being a perfectionist!
Virgos believe that doling out criticism is like giving people precious advice on self-improvement. They, much like Capricorns, want their loved ones to be the best versions of themselves. So, they are often vocal about their high expectations and how you, their partner, can work towards meeting them. To those who don’t take kindly to such criticism, this can feel brutal and mean, even though Virgo doesn’t mean it maliciously and can’t really curb the habit.
He seems unemotional because he isn’t dramatic, but that doesn’t mean he’s emotionless
There’s something very attractive about the sharp, cool, and detached personality of Virgos. This attracts many people to them. However, most people are quite hurt by the lack of melodrama and sentimentality in a Virgo, and mistake it for lack of emotions. He just has different ways of showing love and isn’t as obvious about his feelings.
This man is not a textbook romantic, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you
Virgos will neither write you poetry like mushy Libra men, nor will they blow your mind with mid-afternoon sex like passionate Scorpios. They won’t whisk you away on candlelit dinners like Leo, or sweep you off your feet the way Aries might. If you equate romance with love, this man is not for you. His love is stable and practical, not a thrilling rush of spontaneity.