5 Steps To Get A Threesome on Tinder (+Screenshots!)

How to have a Threesome Just Using Tinder (Personal Example with Screenshots Start to Finish)

Why do so many couples try to find a threesome through Tinder?

Let’s not waste time on bullshit and cut straight to the chase.

Here are the advantages and disadvantages of using Tinder for threesomes.

  • No awkward situations with people you might run into again
  • When there’s no click during the date, you don’t have to reject a friend or acquaintance
  • Finding a stranger for a threesome in real life often requires long nights of going out
  • Asking for a threesome in real life is easily awkward
  • A rejection of your threesome proposal on Tinder will feel less harsh
  • Of course, there are also some downsides:

  • People might screenshot your profile (although there are ways to use Tinder anonymously)
  • It’s harder to decide if someone is a good candidate just based on pictures and text
  • There’s some competition when it comes to male profiles who are looking for a threesome (but you’ll beat the competition with the following tips!)
  • Is Tinder the best dating app when it comes to getting a threesome? Or are there alternative apps that are even better?

    An app just for threesomes that uses verified profiles. Sounds too good to be true?

    Do you see all those 5-star feedbacks? At the time of writing this, there are about 10000 enthusiastic reviews!

    Let’s see exactly why people are going wild about this app.

    Let me fix my last sentence:

    Let’s see why people bots are going wild about this app.

    Looks like 3rder fixed a ton of bot-generated comments. Bots that are poorly programmed and make horrible sentences.

    I can also tell these reviews are 100% fake because they force marketing keywords into their texts. This way when guys like you search for “tinder alternative” in Google Play or Apple Store, you’ll find their app.

    But if I filter the reviews to ‘recommended’ then I can see the reviews that most people agreed with.

    And then we land on these more honest critiques:

    Real reviews. From actual people who tried the app.

    Long story short: you can’t text anyone without paying.

    Every threesome app out there seems to get most people complaining.

    Either everything is a paid feature, there aren’t enough profiles, or the app is just full of bugs.

    So let’s look at an app that wasn’t designed for threesomes, but actually works to get threesomes.

    Step 1: Tinder profile for threesomes

    Jokes aside, let’s build you a Tinder profile that locks down more threesomes than Sasha Grey in her prime.

    Before you can start building your profile, you need to decide whether it’s going to be YOUR or HER profile.

    Since most people reading this article will be guys with a girl looking for an extra girl, this is what we’ll focus on here.

    A Tinder profile to find one extra girl for an FFM threesome.

    In this case, a male profile is your best choice.

    Here’s the logic:

    Your second option would be a female profile set to seeing girls. But this way you’ll only get lesbian or bisexual girls. And miss out on the ocean of straight girls with an FFM fantasy.

    This way you’ll have the biggest reach. And reach is what you’ll need when you’re on a mission for something as specific as an FFM threesome.

    Holy Tip:

    When creating a MALE profile to get FFM threesomes, you have the biggest reach. Obviously, most of the women coming across your profile are just looking for one guy to meet. Whether it be casual or for a serious relationship. However, it’s not because they aren’t actively looking for a threesome, that they don’t want one when the opportunity presents itself. Just like when you go to the supermarket for milk and come back with a chocolate bar.

    So let’s look at the most important detail of that profile:

    As with ANY kind of profile, your first photo decides at least 69% of your Tinder success.

    I’m a big fan of not beating around the bush.

    You could start off with a photo of just yourself. But most girls will first think you’re a normal profile then. Suddenly another girl pops up and it’s about threesomes.

    Too many guys on Tinder are secretly looking for threesomes.

    You could start off with a photo of your girl. This way your match instantly knows something’s up. When she sees you in the other photos, she’ll get an idea of what’s going on.

    Or… you could start with a tactful photo of you and your girl TOGETHER. This paired with your bio makes the intent of your profile very clear very fast.

    You’re not wasting anyone’s time. They’re not interested? Fine, they can swipe left in the blink of an eye.

    They can look at more photos or just swipe right.

    There are two possible reasons for someone to watch the rest of your profile.

  • They are not interested in a threesome but are curious to see what you and your girls look like.
  • They are at least a little interested in a threesome. And the rest of your profile will decide whether they yay or nay you.
  • The rest of your profile wants to convey three attractive qualities:

    Let’s start with Attractiveness:

    No, you don’t need to be a Milan fashion week catwalk model. But you need to be attractive. This can mean two things:

  • Physically attractive. If you never work out and have enough kcal stored around your hips to outlast anyone else during a zombie apocalypse, then you’re making things hard on yourself. If you’re living a healthy lifestyle, then a tasteful body shot together with your girl can work wonders.
  • Attractive through your skills or offer. Got a specific scenario in mind that might be very appealing to your match? Share it.
  • Trustworthiness: No person in his or her right mind will be down for a threesome with people they don’t trust. Trust is a huge factor for any normal Tinder meetup. When a threesome is on the table (no pun intended), this comes into play even more (again, no pun intended).

    Depending on your profile, this can be hard. Some people prefer not to show their face when hunting for a threeway. This takes away your option to smile (at the camera). Which is the easiest way to generate a good chunk of trust.

    If you decide not to show any faces, then it’s crucial your photos are of high quality and not cheap or vulgar looking.

    Comfort: Almost all comfort will come from your Tinder bio and your texts. More on your texts in a bit, let’s look at the bio first.

    A Tinder profile text for threesomes differs from a normal profile text.

    Just like any good bio, this one will also need to be lighthearted and fun. But it also needs to clarify what your profile is about.

    Nothing less sexy than two people looking for a threesome but beating around the bush.

    It indicates embarrassment. And being embarrassed about wanting a threesome isn’t attractive.

    However, the opposite is also a turnoff: being overly clear about what you want, while ignoring all other things a bio should do:

    It’s important you write your own bio and keep it authentic. Go over it with your girl and see if you both like it.

    Here’s an example of one used by one of my best friends and his girl:

    You like boys but you’re not against the idea of being with a girl? You’re a chill, open-minded person in general? Then let’s slurp some vino together.

    This bio is friendly, laid back, to the point, funny, and it shows personality through his odd choice of words.

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