The easiest thing to do, of course, is to send a quick “Hey” or “How are you?” But messages like these dont encourage anyone to respond. The best way to get a response is to ask a question—after all, everybody loves talking about themselves! Try to ask her something that allows her to open up to you and tell you more about herself. Once shes comfortable, the conversation ball will really start to roll!
Cheeky Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl
What would you do If I kissed you right now?
What is your biggest turn on?
What is your biggest turn off?
Do you prefer cuddling or kissing?
What are your favourite pet names? Babe, Cutie etc. …
Want to know a secret?
Would you ever have a sugar daddy?
Who was your teacher crush?
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What are your hobbies?
Whats a hobby you started but gave up on?
What are you bad at?
If you could switch lives with any celebrity, who would it be?
Are you an introvert or extrovert?
Do you like to be alone?
Whats your Myers-Briggs?
Whats on your bucket list?
Whats one thing you have to do before you die?
What should I know about you that I would never think to ask?
Given the choice of anyone in the world, dead or alive, who would you pick as a dinner guest?
What do you feel most grateful for in life?
When did you last sing to yourself? What song was it?
Whats your go-to dance move?
What would be a perfect day for you?
Whats your most treasured memory?
Whats your love language?
When did you last cry?
What do you think is your most attractive quality?
What is your biggest turn-off?
What music makes you happy?
What music makes you sad?
If you could only listen to one artist for the rest of your life, who would it be?
Do you like art museums?
Do you keep a diary?
Do you think youll be rich one day?
Whats more important to you, work or hobbies?
What would you want to get on your birthday?
Get a response on Tinder by asking questions that make her think.
What are your top five favorite movies?
What is your favorite childrens book?
What was your favorite grade in school?
Do you miss high school?
How did your last Tinder date go?
What are/were your grandparents like?
Are you more like your mom or your dad?
What was your first job?
Do you like Harry Potter?
So far in your life, what has been your favorite age?
What is a piece of advice you would give to the younger version of yourself?
Was college worth it for you?
If you could relive on day of your life again, which would it be?
What do you wish you could do-over in life?
If your house was on fire and you could only save one thing, what would it be?
What skill do you wish you had?
Whats a hobby you would like to start but dont have the time/money for?
If you never had to work another day in your life, what would you do?
Would you consider yourself: a punk, a prep, a jock, a loner, or a jokester?
Whats the silliest turn-off you have?
Is there anything youd never do?
Do you like spicy food?
Do you speak any other languages?
What language would you like to learn?
TikTok or Instagram?
Books or eBooks?
Whats a dish you wish you knew how to cook?
Do you like to sleep in on the weekends?
Whats the most exciting thing you can say about yourself that you can think of in 60 seconds?
Do you believe in aliens?
Whats your favorite conspiracy theory?
If you were stuck on a desert island, what five things would you bring with you?
What is your strangest personality trait?
What would I find if I Googled your name?
Do you believe in ghosts?
If you were to go to prison, what would it be for?
Have you ever done something illegal?
Would you rather win $50,000 or let your best friend win $500,000?
Were Ross and Rachel on a break?
Who was your childhood celebrity crush?
Whats your most embarrassing story youre willing to share?
What do you think about pineapple on pizza?
Who do you think you were in a past life?
If you were at a friend’s house and saw a cockroach in your salad, what would you do?
Do you believe in the Illuminati?
Toilet paper: over or under?
Did you drink enough water today?
Do you believe in God?
Do you pray?
Do you like talking about politics?
Do you believe in astrology? Why or why not?
What do you think happens after we die?
Do you like/understand art?
Would you want to be famous?
What do you wish you cared less about?
What do you wish you cared more about?
Whats a global issue we should pay more attention to?
Whats legal but, in your opinion, unethical?
If you could choose how you die, what would you choose?
Do you like to dance?
Netflix or club?
Can you sleep while cuddling?
In your opinion, whats illegal but shouldnt be?
Do you think sarcasm is healthy in a relationship?
Whats the biggest red flag for you?
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Would you rather have love or unlimited money?
Do you prefer cuddling up or having a make-out session?
If we spooned, would you be the big spoon or the little spoon?
What do you think is your sexiest feature?
Whats the first thing you noticed about my profile?
Do you sleep in pajamas or naked?
Any fantasies youd like to try?
Though there are many right ways to go, there are many ways you can screw up too. Here are a few things you should never message a girl:
“Hey” or “Hi”
Complimenting her on her looks (girls get hundreds of these!)
Inappropriately sexual messages or pictures
Overused pick up lines (if youve heard it before, shes probably heard it before too)
I hope by browsing this list, you were able to find some conversation starter ideas for your Tinder matches. Youll be surprised by what could happen if you just put yourself out there and send the first message—you might just meet your perfect match.