17 Unambiguous Signs Of Unspoken Mutual Attraction

What is unspoken attraction? Unspoken attraction is when two people feel attracted to each other, but they do not say it aloud. This attraction exists based on subtle or clear physical behaviors both parties exhibit when they are close to each other.
  • They tease you about things. …
  • They make excuses to touch you. …
  • You care what the other person thinks. …
  • You miss them when you aren’t together. …
  • You can’t stop smiling. …
  • You don’t notice others around you. …
  • They pay attention to you. …
  • You laugh when you’re with them.

Signs of Unspoken Attraction that’ll Reveal If Someone’s Into You

9. You look for excuses to be around each other.

You love their company so much, you look for excuses to spend time with them or around them, just to hear their voice, to see them, and (you hope) have their attention for a while.

Fortunately, they seem to want the same thing, so you’re spending a lot more time together than you used to. And you love it.

The flipside, of course, is that you feel their absence more than you used to. And you’re definitely not loving that.

You keep it clean — just friendly touches that both of you are fine with. You might not even realize how much you’re touching until someone else points it out.

At some point, the touches become less platonic and more I-wouldn’t-do-this-with-anyone-else (not that you mind. Because you don’t).

These are touches you’re both likely to notice and, if you’re both on the same page, welcome and reciprocate. What comes next is predictable.

11. Your faces light up when you see each other.

And that’s not to mention the stuff going on inside your bodies that no one really wants to know about — aside from the sudden pounding of the heart and the sensation of your stomach dropping into your feet.

Much as you enjoy each other’s company, those physical responses still come along for the ride. Because, whether you’re ready to admit it or not, you’re crazy about each other.

You’re comfortable being vulnerable with each other. No topic is off-limits, and both of you are open and empathetic with each other.

Your guard is down with them, and you feel that they’re more themselves when they’re with you. Both of you see each other.

Maybe you started out with a platonic friendship, but you’re both feeling something else developing between you. And if nothing is keeping you apart, why not continue learning as much as you can about each other (since you enjoy it so much)?

13. You both try to look your best when the other is around.

You make an extra effort to look good when you know you’re going to be around each other. And even when you don’t, you find you spend more time on your hair, face, clothes, housekeeping, etc.

You want to imagine they see you whenever you catch your reflection and like what you see. You want to look at your home and love how clean and relaxing it feels because they just might visit. And that’s reason enough.

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