- “Good morning! I hope you slept well last night.” …
- “Good morning! Just woke up thinking about how awesome you are. …
- “Morning! I’m really looking forward to seeing you tonight.” …
- “Hi, my love. I woke up thinking about you and it put a huge smile on my face.”
This is the Perfect GOOD MORNING Texts to Send Your Crush!
âI was thinking about how much you like [insert thing they like here], so enjoy!â
Thereâs nothing like checking your phone in the morning to find an irreverent meme or funny TikTok. Show your crush that you pay attention to what they like, and maybe theyâll get the hint that you have feelings for them. As Trina Leckie, relationship coach and host of the Breakup BOOST podcast, previously told Bustle, humor can go a long way by breaking the ice and making you both more comfortable with each other. âPeople love to laugh and are attracted to a great sense of humor,â Leckie said. âPlus, you can see if your humor is similar, and thatâs a great way to grow that bond.â
Adding the âI hopeâ here personalizes your well-wishes, according to Morales. And you definitely want your good morning texts to be personal. One of the most important things you want to do when sending a morning text is to make it feel genuine and fun. âKeep it light, fun, and a little flirty,â Leckie said. âBe positive and maintain good energy.â
âMorning! I know you have a lot going on today â I believe in you!â
When you know theyâve got something stressful or important going on that day, it might be the time to break out the sweet hype-man texts. Sending a supportive text alongside some funny, lighthearted emojis â such as the flexing arm muscle or twinkling stars â can go a long way to putting a smile on their face. Plus, shooting them a message like this reminds them that you actually care about them and remember whatâs going on in their life â and thatâs pretty romantic.
âJust as in real life, you need to inspire an emotional response from someone to build a connection,â Damona Hoffman, official OkCupid dating coach and host of The Dates & Mates Podcast, previously told Bustle. âEmotion doesnt have to be a romantic connection on par with The Notebook.â
Got a hangout or date scheduled for later today? Morales says that when your personâs love language is physical touch, you can remind them that youâre open to IRL affection â even if theyâre not waking up next to you just yet. Plus, reminding them that youâre seeing them later might help build some fun anticipation.
Itâs nice, it shows you care, and itâs just a little intimate. In other words, it strikes a great balance of âbe mineâ and âhope youâre doing well, bro.â Itâs just casual enough to be easy and breezy, but it still shows your interest in a way that will make them smile upon reading. âIf someone is genuinely right for you, then seeing a text from you at the start of their day will make them feel seen, valued, and safe,â says Flores.
A heart will make this good morning text sincere and (literally) heart-warming. A winky face will do something else entirely. You can always go with a classic smile if youâre looking for that happy middle ground. One thing to note, though, is being aware of where you are with the other person in terms of your relationship. You donât want to bombard them with hearts if itâs very early on, as Flores explains.
âIf youre still in the very early stages of getting to know them and trying to evaluate whether you both are compatible, I would personally hold off until you have a more secure and confident idea that theyre someone you want to keep engaging with,â she says.
âThinking about you this morning. Hope you slept well and have a great rest of your day.â
Morales says that especially if your crushâs love language is words of affirmation, letting them know youâre waking up with them on your mind can be as simple as saying so. This one can definitely be on the more upfront sentimental side, though â especially depending on emoji use â so be aware of whether or not it fits the timeline of your relationship so far, as Flores says. If it does fit, send away!
âGive a flirtatious indication that you care about them and are interested in them â plain and simple,â says Flores. âThis ones a bit bolder, for sure, but can most definitely move things along in the right direction if youre getting the feeling that they feel the same way!â
Who doesnât want to be reminded that theyâre amazing first thing in the morning? Sending some uplifting energy your crushâs way will help you both start your day with a smile. After all, the whole point of a morning text is to remind them of how you feel. âI often tell my clients who are worried about rushing the progression of a relationship (aka being âtoo much, too fastâ) that there is nothing wrong with being honest with someone and letting them know that theyre on your mind, as long as youre being intentional with what youre doing and why youre doing it,â says Flores.
Not for the faint of heart, the morning photo is to be reserved for when youâre already on a selfie-sending basis with your crush. Try a smile with your cup of coffee if you want to err on the cautious side, or go for a bleary but adorable just-waking-up shot if youâre feeling extra brave. In fact, sending a funny early morning snap â disheveled hair, lack of excitement â might go a long way in making them see you in a real, laidback sense.
âShowing humility and self-awareness is a very desirable quality, so when you show you have a sense of humor (even about yourself), that can make your crush see you in a positive light,â Hoffman said.
Ah yes, the remix of the classic thatâs bound to get their heart fluttering. Save this one for when youâre a bit more familiar with each other â pressing send will make your heart skip, too. âIf youre interested in a relationship with someone, want to start building a more intimate relationship with them, and are looking for a partner who feels and wants the same, go for it!â says Flores. âIve never been a fan of holding yourself back from the authentic expression of love and excitement.â