- He is asking more questions than usual. …
- He doesn’t take your answers at face value. …
- He is constantly checking up on you. …
- He is getting very clingy. …
- He consults your friends and family. …
- He blows things out of proportion. …
- He starts being very reactive.
CRAZY THINGS GUYS DO WHEN THEY’RE JEALOUS! (True Facts!)
3. He always wants to have the last laugh
If you find yourself in a relationship where someone is constantly trying to one-up other guys, then something is terribly wrong. In this case, he’s probably trying to impress you and is going about it the wrong way. What makes it even worse is if he isn’t your boyfriend yet or someone who has fallen in love with; so, its basically, a sign that he is vying for your attention.
So, let’s say you go out as a group of friends and he insists on paying all the bills. Or showers you with ridiculously expensive gifts, then you need to look a bit closer. It may not be a function of the goodness of his heart, it could be some good old fashioned jealousy at work. Trust me, men are complicated creatures; even though they like to make it look like we have a monopoly on that.
So, once you notice that all the primping up and trying to impress you is an act, you need to nip it in the bud. Feeling a twinge here and there is one thing, but maxing out his card is a whole other ball game.
4. His energy levels change when you talk about other men
When a guy is jealous, for the most part, irrationality flies out the window. Once you mention that cute guy you love chatting with at the store or an old flame that came into town, it’ll be like someone or something sucked all the joy out of the room.
If you are looking for signs that he likes you, then this is really obvious. He may try to put his poker face to use, but emotions seep through in little bits. What’s more, his words may not be an indicator, but expressions never lie at all.
If he really wants to take it to the extreme, then he will probably shut down entirely. His silence is more than enough to prove that he’s battling with some emotions within. And in the case,
that he’s not into you in a romantic way, he will be happy for you and it will show. He will be interested and genuinely want to know a lot more about the new guy in question.
5. He only flirts when he thinks you’re watching
Do you know what’s even worse about these next signs? In the case that you were not around while he was flirting, then he will fill you in on it when he sees you. Its not only a sign that he likes you, but it also shows he is jealous.
You know that he’s really into you when he feels the need to make you jealous as well. Its something many jealous people do. In fact, it’s a way to show you’re not the only option that he has. Yes, its nothing short of a sick and twisted plan, but then again, it is a general thing human beings do – which also comes in the form of a jealous man.
You may be telling him about your boyfriend with no spite in your heart, but he certainly does not take it that way. So, this is just his way of saying that he can find someone else two times as fast as you can. In a nutshell, the guy is jealous and you need to carefully navigate this situation.