Or, perhaps he is dealing with a stressful situation at work or a health problem that has made you take a back burner. In this case, the signs your husband is not attracted to you could point to a personal problem with him that could be resolved with a simple conversation.
- He avoids going to bed with you at the same time. …
- He avoids looking at you when you’re naked.
- He no longer spontaneously touches you.
- He appears to just ‘go through the motions’ when making love.
16 Devastating Signs Your Husband Is Not Attracted To You Anymore
1. You rarely talk
Communication is key in any relationship, especially a marriage. You might say “Hey” to each other when passing through the hallway, but when was the last time you two really sat down and talked?
If you can’t remember the last time you had his full attention in a conversation, this is a concern and can be one of the signs your husband doesn’t find you attractive.
What to do:
Start by asking him about his day. Really listen to his answers and respond by asking questions that lead to further conversation. Make eye contact and show you care by relating to his experiences.
2. He doesn’t state his needs
On the subject of talking, does he still tell you what his needs are? Marriage requires two people to learn how to take care of each other, but if he is no longer telling you what his needs are, this is trouble.
What to do:
Ask! Start the day by asking what he needs from you that day or if there is something he needs in general that you can help with. The best way to know what our spouses need is to ask.
3. He ignores your needs
Enough about him, what about you? Are you communicating your needs, yet he fails to acknowledge them? Does he respond at all, or do you feel he dismisses you?
Being put on the back burner or flat out ignored could be signs that there is a lack of investment or that a husband has lost attraction to his wife.
What to do:
First, you need to know what your needs are. Without a clear idea of what you are asking for, it will be difficult for him to respond.
You want to state your needs directly and straight to the point. Short, direct, and without accusing is a good way to avoid confusion on what the core need is you want to get across.